2013年4月25日 星期四
2012年12月16日 星期日
反思
「此時此刻在地球上,約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶,就看你先遇到哪一個,如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前,你已經跟前一個人發展出相知相惜、互相信賴的 深層關係,那後者就會變成你的好朋友」
若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶,不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了,我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱,就是「近親生慢侮」,也就是經濟學中的鐵律「邊際效益遞減法則」,跟你在一起越久的人,就越容易麻木與忽視,而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。
在感情對待中,難免有摩擦與無心的傷害,而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人,當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人; 而新歡呢,又還沒開始有得罪你的機會,再加上他的刻意討好,所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛,舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
但別忘了,新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數,舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。 千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己,錯放了幸福溫暖的手。 所以蕭伯納的話,是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一,應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上,同時也提醒我們「溺水三千,只取一瓢飲」。
若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶,就不要再三心二意了,因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個,所以要知福惜福、活在當下。
在感情對待中,難免有摩擦與無心的傷害,而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人,當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人; 而新歡呢,又還沒開始有得罪你的機會,再加上他的刻意討好,所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛,舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
但別忘了,新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數,舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。 千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己,錯放了幸福溫暖的手。 所以蕭伯納的話,是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一,應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上,同時也提醒我們「溺水三千,只取一瓢飲」。
若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶,就不要再三心二意了,因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個,所以要知福惜福、活在當下。
2012年5月2日 星期三
Into the Wild
Some people feel like they don't deserve love. They walk away quietly into empty spaces, trying to close the gaps of the past.
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2011年12月10日 星期六
Distances brings us closer
Written on 20th Nov 2011
Half year ago, went to Adelaide for the cadet pilot training !
Back to HK yesterday!
Gained a lot throughout the half year !! Not only my technical knowledge but lots of personal growth ! Nothing can actually compared with it ! I have no regret spending the time there !Although the training didn't come the way I expected and the intensive training wasn't easy at all, I treasured every minutes striving for the best with everyone in DA13 !
Leaving may sound a tough decision , It was what I used to think as well . Yes, its a tough decision to make, but its also a good move for myself, I reckon. The pilot training sharpen my personality a lot and make me more ready to face any challenges ahead ....
Will probably still fly the way I enjoy it .... but may not fly commercially .....anyway..its yet to make any solid plan ..
Everyone in DA13 , I know it may come as a shock to you all as well , esp. my housemate and neighbour,but, distance will just brings us closer, isn't it ? Have fun and all the best from me !
And dreams will never end ..
Half year ago, went to Adelaide for the cadet pilot training !
Back to HK yesterday!
Gained a lot throughout the half year !! Not only my technical knowledge but lots of personal growth ! Nothing can actually compared with it ! I have no regret spending the time there !Although the training didn't come the way I expected and the intensive training wasn't easy at all, I treasured every minutes striving for the best with everyone in DA13 !
Leaving may sound a tough decision , It was what I used to think as well . Yes, its a tough decision to make, but its also a good move for myself, I reckon. The pilot training sharpen my personality a lot and make me more ready to face any challenges ahead ....
Will probably still fly the way I enjoy it .... but may not fly commercially .....anyway..its yet to make any solid plan ..
Everyone in DA13 , I know it may come as a shock to you all as well , esp. my housemate and neighbour,but, distance will just brings us closer, isn't it ? Have fun and all the best from me !
And dreams will never end ..
2011年9月17日 星期六
Flying
Having been flying for a while, many ups and downs
and I start to love it bit by bit and i start to appreciate the beauty of flying more and more
Today! I tell myself ! I have to be a good pilot ! I will treat my flying more seriously and professionally !
and I start to love it bit by bit and i start to appreciate the beauty of flying more and more
Today! I tell myself ! I have to be a good pilot ! I will treat my flying more seriously and professionally !
2011年8月15日 星期一
2011年8月12日 星期五
My first Love
Having been in Australia to about 3 months ...
No matter where I go , I still compared it with every bits and pieces of Denmark , Copenhagen ...
THen , I discover how much I love this tiny little city ... I did regret somehow of not spending enough time to appreciate every little bit of it ..
But it may be the regretness that make it even more beautiful ...
I will defintely go back there ...
For its bread..
For its people ..
For its air...
For its grass...
For the bicycle ..
For all the memories...
For the beauty ....
For everything .. deep down in my heart ...
I just love it too much !
2011年7月18日 星期一
笑中有淚
我 要多得自己 更加多謝你
你將我磨成利器 戀愛路有幸捱不死
競技場上當嬉戲 今天講來彷彿一世紀
早已 記不起自己 有否憎恨你
至少今天再站起 從前在快樂時以苦調味
在過山車裡上天落地 經歷就當福氣
*當我無情無恨望過去 還是笑中有淚
抓緊愛侶只靠寬容不靠淚水
無奈要被你拋棄後 先瞭解我是誰
如若那天我大多幾歲 *
這一刻也許 還是一雙好愛侶
不錯 過得到自己 便可體諒你
也許都因我自卑 攜同著壓力陪你趕場地
渡過了春光再幻想明媚 當日是我逼你
Repeat *
什麼都去追 明白到無需因你會分手過慮
誰亦可以沒誰 離合全為了大家高興
到今天也許 還是一雙好愛侶
如果將來能得到和誰 其實多得這過去
你將我磨成利器 戀愛路有幸捱不死
競技場上當嬉戲 今天講來彷彿一世紀
早已 記不起自己 有否憎恨你
至少今天再站起 從前在快樂時以苦調味
在過山車裡上天落地 經歷就當福氣
*當我無情無恨望過去 還是笑中有淚
抓緊愛侶只靠寬容不靠淚水
無奈要被你拋棄後 先瞭解我是誰
如若那天我大多幾歲 *
這一刻也許 還是一雙好愛侶
不錯 過得到自己 便可體諒你
也許都因我自卑 攜同著壓力陪你趕場地
渡過了春光再幻想明媚 當日是我逼你
Repeat *
什麼都去追 明白到無需因你會分手過慮
誰亦可以沒誰 離合全為了大家高興
到今天也許 還是一雙好愛侶
如果將來能得到和誰 其實多得這過去
2011年7月5日 星期二
So True
多少人在說,
我會等你,等你回心轉意的那一天;
我會等你,等你願意和我在一起的那一天;
我會等你,等你離開那個人來到我身邊的那一天;
我會等你,等你……然而人們可曾知道,世上的愛情,沒有幾份真的經得起等待!
這個世界上最殘忍的一句話,不是對不起,也不是我恨你,而是,我們再也回不去。就是這樣再簡單不過的一句話,生生的將兩個原本親密的人隔為疏離。 沒有經曆過的人,永遠都不會明白,那是怎樣的一種切膚之痛。
我會等你,等你回心轉意的那一天;
我會等你,等你願意和我在一起的那一天;
我會等你,等你離開那個人來到我身邊的那一天;
我會等你,等你……然而人們可曾知道,世上的愛情,沒有幾份真的經得起等待!
這個世界上最殘忍的一句話,不是對不起,也不是我恨你,而是,我們再也回不去。就是這樣再簡單不過的一句話,生生的將兩個原本親密的人隔為疏離。 沒有經曆過的人,永遠都不會明白,那是怎樣的一種切膚之痛。
最寶貴的東西不是你擁有的物質,而是陪伴在你身邊的人。不能強迫別人來愛自己,只能努力讓自己成為值得愛的人,其餘的事情則靠緣分。
2011年6月10日 星期五
Dragonair cadet pilot programme selection 3- second stage interview
Finally have Internet connection for this entry.
The second stage interview of dragonair cadet pilot programme consisted of a number of sections.
1) ICAO English Test, which test your general English level, not aviation-related at all , as far as I remembered. You can practise by watching more BBC programme from wherever sources, try to find out more information about the areas they are assessing, e.g. structure, grammar and etc.
2) Medical Check, nothing to worry about. Once again, no matter how many degree of short-sighted you are, it is NOT a problem. Just use a clear and correct lens for the eye test ! ( good to be a new one to make sure it does correct your eye-sight to 20/20 or 22/22 I forgot ...) you will be fine. But of course, lazy eye, color blindness is not acceptable and no lasik surgery ..
3) Technical Interview. Study as much as you can, Both single engine aircraft and jet , particular airbus fleet that KA is having.
4) Personality Test, no worries.
5) Social Lunch, just social and talk and enjoy a nice lunch.
6) Group Exercise, not-aviation related in my case, just simple group tasks to test you teamwork and whether you are comfortably working with others in a group, not really that stressful and in my case, 5 out of 6 in my group pass through this stage to the flight grading.
Good Luck and add oil guys and girls! Its a test of your preparation and your passion! Do as many research as you can and tell them you are the one !
The second stage interview of dragonair cadet pilot programme consisted of a number of sections.
1) ICAO English Test, which test your general English level, not aviation-related at all , as far as I remembered. You can practise by watching more BBC programme from wherever sources, try to find out more information about the areas they are assessing, e.g. structure, grammar and etc.
2) Medical Check, nothing to worry about. Once again, no matter how many degree of short-sighted you are, it is NOT a problem. Just use a clear and correct lens for the eye test ! ( good to be a new one to make sure it does correct your eye-sight to 20/20 or 22/22 I forgot ...) you will be fine. But of course, lazy eye, color blindness is not acceptable and no lasik surgery ..
3) Technical Interview. Study as much as you can, Both single engine aircraft and jet , particular airbus fleet that KA is having.
4) Personality Test, no worries.
5) Social Lunch, just social and talk and enjoy a nice lunch.
6) Group Exercise, not-aviation related in my case, just simple group tasks to test you teamwork and whether you are comfortably working with others in a group, not really that stressful and in my case, 5 out of 6 in my group pass through this stage to the flight grading.
Good Luck and add oil guys and girls! Its a test of your preparation and your passion! Do as many research as you can and tell them you are the one !
2011年4月18日 星期一
Dragonair Cadet Pilot Selection 2 ( first interview)
Well , I finally get the largest sponsorship/ scholarship I have ever had in my life !! Thanks dragonair ! You are just too great to make our dream come true .. I am going to work very hard in the sky for the coming year to realize my dream ...and will come back as a professional pilot !
Just tidy up my room and discovered a lot of papers, notes and stuffs related to aviation / cadet pilot/ ICAO english and etc .. They mark all the efforts i made this half year ! Sucess belongs to those who fight till the end ! Good Luck dreamers !
由於很多人都對 selection process 有很大的 Conern , 我會盡力的解答 ...and I will start with the first interview here ...
First Interview
Well ...It is solely a HR interview ...no technical stuffs.. just HR personnel , no pilot sitting the interview.Just prepare your best !
Study all typically HR questions and study your CV very well ...
they probably will pick some Qs related to ur background ..etc..
Most importantly , be very sure why you want to be a pilot !!
I think they want confident, passonated individual to operate their planes.
To me,this interview is for them to confirm u have the right personality on board. They can tell if u are making up stories .. so be honest ... be confident and leave them a good impression .. thats bascially wt it is about.
Be relaxed ! Good luck and Leave no regret !
2011年4月3日 星期日
在乎
在乎
這是一種拿不起、放不下的心態,
它的反面不是放棄,而是天馬行空,自由自在,
一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間你會發現,原本你費盡心機要忘記的事,就這樣忘了。Sometimes we have to walk alone, listen to a brand new song, keep walking and walking. Soon you will discover that the thing, the person you ever tried hard to forget is already being forgotten.
這是一種拿不起、放不下的心態,
它的反面不是放棄,而是天馬行空,自由自在,
一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間你會發現,原本你費盡心機要忘記的事,就這樣忘了。Sometimes we have to walk alone, listen to a brand new song, keep walking and walking. Soon you will discover that the thing, the person you ever tried hard to forget is already being forgotten.
2011年2月17日 星期四
Clark
11 年 2 月10 - 15 日
To me ,it is a land of
happiness
smiling face
friendly people
and
sunshine !
Met a lot of interesting people in this trips .. never thought of having acompany before ! This trip will not be that great without them ! I am really blessed ...
Clark 16th philippines international Hot Air Ballon Fest +
omni aviation
Day 1 : 天氣不似預期 , 但信心和感覺也回來了....
Day 2 : not enough sleep, feeling dizzy after 50mins ... yet .. performance was good , i can tell improvement myself
Day 3: VomitDay 4: Stepping out of the bottom neck , relaxed and getting better
Day 5: Really enjoy and confirm than I love it so so much !!
是次旅遊調整了心情 ..為月底的FG作了很好的準備...
Let picture speck for themselves
I will surely miss everything in the Phillippines ...
2011年2月9日 星期三
備戰
Leave no regret !!!!
[and you will do just fine in Adelaide, you have everything that KA are looking for in a pilot, so just relax ok
i want you to go in there and already know this is your job and nobody is going to take it from you.
you will be a star I can tell.]
.....u know how motivating this is !! thanks !! I am really blessed ..
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2011年1月26日 星期三
清境 ( 一 )
12月17日 清境
看着木星,半年後再身處台灣…是次是去了南投的清境..
這是海拔很高的地方,看的是一片雲海..很美的 “天星” ,有置身於希臘小島一樣的美…
開始工作了,難得…靜靜吸一口空氣 …
急忙的又選了台灣這片土地…是命運的推使?? 是又一個的偶然?? 我不知道 …
只知道每 一次都無悔….每一次都獲得很多很多…..
每一次旅行都讓我想起從前,深深的印在心田的種種回憶 ..讓我反省從前是多麼的不成熟…二年前的今天是 Denmark first term final exam 的前一個晚上...我想起了丹麥的冬天...那一年的聖誕節...回憶很實在....要放下的只是執着....當有一天我懂得愛...也許我能夠 ..我也期盼着那一天...
民宿以”星星”為主題,我們的 “火星” 睡房..關上燈,漫天星星... 流星.. 還有火星...伴我進入夢鄉.... 民宿爸爸說木星不是星星...是恆星..因為它是反射太陽的光,自己不會發光... 星星卻是自己閃閃發亮,...照耀天際...也正正是我喜歡它的原因...還有的就是它見證着一段又一段歷史..不對...它本身已經是歷史的一部份...看着人在時代巨輪中的逆轉...
Little Swiss 小瑞士花園..親身感受比遠看很不同 ....樂在其中...聖誕氣氛有像 Tivoli 的 christmas ... 雲海也很像 Italy 的天空之城...但這次心境開朗了很多...
民宿...一切的經歷跟上一次很不同,不管多留戀上一次的美好,今後一切也有其獨特之處....
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2個不同的天氣 ...
2 個不同的心境..
2 個不同的組合..
又一次難忘的旅程..
我發現我漸漸做到了...
那怕置身何處..我覺得現在我...已在最高處..
2011年1月15日 星期六
2011年1月14日 星期五
In my life - Beatles
There are places I remember
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places had their moments
With lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life I've loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
In my life I love you more
All my life though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places had their moments
With lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life I've loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life I love you more
In my life I love you more
2011年1月3日 星期一
2010年12月31日 星期五
2010
2010
Very special year for me ...
Year for tears .. for regrets ...
Year for meeting new friends... exploring new lifestyle..
Year for reflection ...
Year for striving my dream ...
Year for chasing peace and happiness
Year for learning how to love others...
I am sure .... the year ahead will be fruitment and great ... as always : )
Hope dream comes true ~
and I had a great start this year with warmth and peacefulness inside my heart :)
.. really wanna hug everyone arround XD ~~
Happy 2011 ..
Very special year for me ...
Year for tears .. for regrets ...
Year for meeting new friends... exploring new lifestyle..
Year for reflection ...
Year for striving my dream ...
Year for chasing peace and happiness
Year for learning how to love others...
I am sure .... the year ahead will be fruitment and great ... as always : )
Hope dream comes true ~
and I had a great start this year with warmth and peacefulness inside my heart :)
.. really wanna hug everyone arround XD ~~
Happy 2011 ..
2010年12月28日 星期二
最近
昨天看到一片落葉, 很開心, 香港還有冬天...
最近, 在回家的路上, 抬頭一看, 還有那冬季星空中不可劃缺的獵戶座 ..照亮天際的木星.. 和那常伴左右的天狼星...
我...就是無論如何..也會被那片片的星空迷住...
因為它對我來說有很深很深的義意...
又一次難忘的旅程...
一點一滴很想記下來...
期待半月後...
最近, 在回家的路上, 抬頭一看, 還有那冬季星空中不可劃缺的獵戶座 ..照亮天際的木星.. 和那常伴左右的天狼星...
我...就是無論如何..也會被那片片的星空迷住...
因為它對我來說有很深很深的義意...
又一次難忘的旅程...
一點一滴很想記下來...
期待半月後...
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